Thursday, April 4, 2013

these words

With these words you can let it go
You can proclaim your secret love
You can start a revolution

With these words you can say yes
Or no

These are yours now
You decide what they mean – their potential is as limitless as you

With these word you can say
I am sorry

You can say
You were wrong

Take them
Make them physical
Shout at them
Use them to wipe away your tears

Tear this paper
Crumple it
Stomp it till its flat again
Hate this thing

Make this into a bird
Or a plane

Bury this in your garden
So you can look out your window
And imagine it slowly breaking down
A thing you could consume for years
Taste it in the juice explosion of tomatoes
Or hear it in the crisp snap of green beans

Feed it to your dog
Then take it to the park and do not scoop that poop
Throw it at the third rail in the subway

Light it up and toss it in your backyard bbq
Then close the lid and do not watch it burn

Or watch it burn
Then piss on the ashes

Toss it from a building or a bridge
Take it to your library or work
Make the font too big
Then print a thousand copies
Or just leave it on the screen
And walk away – don’t stop walking until your smile is invincible

Put this in your pillow case
So each crinkle reminds you of the truth

These are your words
You can add more if some are missing

_______________________________
_______________________________
Speak them if you want
Or flush them
Make them the worm in a bottle never to be emptied

These are your words
Own them
Make them magical
These words are the talisman you need
To perform the ritual
The one that frees you
That obliterates those well worn excuses
That frightens every monster in your mind
It doesn’t matter what you do
As long as it makes you better
But do something

Take this
This moment
Take these words
Use them
Believe differently
Wield your power

And know this

I love you
I love you
I love you

I believe
In you
I know
There is nothing you cannot do

Sunday, August 19, 2012

Just Me by Da’shade Moonbeam – or Why Austin Hip hop ought to be on the dang radio.

  Some people you meet in life are there to lift you. They do it in different ways. Some folks have your back. Some people always include you. Some are funny. Some always make you smile. Then there are folks like Da’Shade Moonbeam who are all those things and freakishly talented to boot.

Let me take that back a bit. Freakishly talented is not fair. That’s my baggage. I want Da’Shade’s talent to be something untouchable and odd, so that the distance I feel between his and mine can be explained away as a gift or an aberration. Truth is he works too hard for that. He always has. The proof of this is simple to find. Just go to any of the amazing shows he puts on around Austin (or the country). His live shows are a carefully sculpted mix of over a decade of writing, performance, MC mastery, dance, stage combat, and nerd culture that culminate in a sort of inspirational, hard core, dorkgasm of truth and power.

If you’re not yet convinced or at least titillated, (what are you, dead?) allow me to offer an aperitif. Just Me is the new CD out by Da’Shade and from first beat to final reverberation it is the best combination of fun, hard, cool, and crazy and a great introduction to Austin Hip Hop and one of its hardest working ambassadors. Da’Shade does it all as the title implies and it is one of my favorite CDs bar none.

Here’s what I would do if you’re not used to new, local Hip Hop music. Use the first couple of tracks to tune your ears in. You’ll get another taste of Fresh at the end so just let it be what it is (which is a booty shaking call to . . . well . . . shake your booty). Practice your head bounce. If nobody’s looking, toss in a stank face and a shoulder roll. (Maybe use Google to look up stank face and shoulder roll.) The point is to have fun. Serious doesn’t mean you have to lose your sense of humor.

The Most Magnificent is an old tune with some new hotness and a great track. At some point you need to let yourself say, ‘uh’ or ‘what’ or ‘damn’ to this one. You also have to laugh. There is too much toilet humor in this one not to. Next is Love, a bad-ass little piece of reflection that feels borne from a thousand notebooks worth of serious musing. It makes me long for those old days when I dragged my butt all over Austin writing and making the kind of mistakes that teach you more than you want to know.

Then, Gotta Get On Up serves up a fat chunk of energy-drink-filled, Original Gamer, jocularity. Seriously if you’re not a fan by this track, you’re doing it wrong. Start again. You should be laughing your butt off and dancing by now. This is maybe the best hook I’ve heard and is a great example of Da’Shade’s incredible writing ability, verbal skill, and serious mojo.

It just gets better from there. I wish I had Girl Song ten years ago. My poor wife would have been defenseless. There would have been candles and kisses and . . . that’s all I’m saying. (note to self – no need for a time machine, set candle and kisses plan into action.) They Are Coming is so much street nerd cool that I wish they would come and I want to run with whatever crew Mr. Moonbeam is hanging with when they get here. I feel bad for ‘em though. These folks don’t play. (see https://www.facebook.com/cryhavocaction) Yeah that’s him too.

And that’s it, except for a remix of Fresh (featuring the always amazing Nook) which gives the CD a bit of closure and cool. This is Austin Hip Hop. It’s not the only think going on, but it is a great example and I highly recommend it. You can get the tracks here: http://dashadespeaks.bandcamp.com/album/just-me-ep. You should also find Da’Shade on FaceBook, (http://facebook.com/dashade), twitter (dashade), and YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/dashadespeaks) and like him or friend him. Then find out when his next show is and see it. Do it now before he hits it big and we lose him to his calling. As for me, I’m gonna listen to the whole dang thing again and then I’m going back to the lab (such that it is). I’ve got work to do and a coolness deficit that must be dealt with.

~ Aaron Sanders

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

For spring and Etta

New day

We go through his nighttime routine
Cleaned up
Jammies on
Go peepee in the potty

Daddy reads books
Two, sometimes three
He has eighty
He only wants to hear the same two or three
He can quote them
But he wants to hear me read
I change up the voices
For 15 minutes it is a vaudeville act
And a circus
And an open mic
And then I turn out the lights
I close the curtains
And it’s time for snuggling

Sometimes we switch
And Mommy sings the quiet encore
His favorites are a secret
He likes improvisation
Then there is more snuggling

You can communicate all of creation inside of a hug of pure intention
He is well loved
We are defenseless against his charms
We are happy
Even when we try not to be

For a time in the dark
We struggle
For space
For connection
For comfort
Sometimes there is bliss for two full minutes
And then a realization sets in

Soon there will be darkness
Soon there will be loneliness
He angles for more time rather than enjoying the moment
Not knowing he is a microcosm
He is always living his life in anticipation of the next thing
He is too much like me

He says, I need you
And he does but . . .
That is not why he is saying that
He says, Don’t leave me
And the heart breaks
He says please – just like he’s been taught, but more earnestly
He works his magic
Manipulating
And 15 minutes turns into 45
Until finally a line is drawn
And inevitably
The cry before the sleep

I have tried to reason with him
I have asked him why he would want to end such a wonderful day with tears
I have asked him how anyone could cry after getting everything they wanted
I have lost my temper
I have walked away
I have given in
I think the hardest thing on Earth
May be closing that door

(Every day I am thankful that this is my hardest thing
It could be food or electricity
It could be selling myself or taking a beating
It could be my life or my family’s
It isn’t and I am so lucky)

I tell him it will be ok
I ask him if he had fun today
I ask what his favorite part was
It’s almost always playing cars

I say we just have to go to sleep for a little while
And then we can do it all again
Only differently
He says, yeah . . . OK
But I can hear in his voice he’s still busy convincing himself
I say if you need us you can come get us
But you need to stay in bed and go to sleep
He says, Tomorrow’s a new day (I think he picked it up from Chicken Little)
And I say that’s right buddy
Tomorrow’s a new day
And I think I’ve won but,
He starts negotiating tomorrow’s exploits
Visits to friend’s houses or grandma’s
Cookies, chewies, cars, and video games
He’s so effing cute
He’s so full of joy and possibility
And despite a desire to stay all night I interrupt him
I love you – good night
I was just talking about. . .
I love you – good night
Um daddy could you stop saying that I’m trying to. . .
I know what you’re trying to do
I Love you – good night
. . .
You have to say it buddy
I love you too daddy – good night
And I bring his door to a close silently

Peace is not a closed door and a sleeping baby
It’s a smile
It’s him reaching up and holding my hand
It’s the chase
And unbridled laughter

We wind the day down, lonely
Listening for him
Secretly hoping he wakes up again
Wanting some water
And needing a hug
We never really rest
Some part is always joyfully waiting
Playing at all the angles
Planning for the next thing

Each New Day
We hide the Easter eggs
We sow the seeds
We run the race
We cry and bloom
We sing and play
Each day is another chance
Another way to say
I love you


Friday, March 4, 2011

Turtles all the way down

Reach down into your heart
Down into the library where you keep your precious things
Past the archives of mental pictures of the people you love smiling
Past the lost and found
Just south of the place where you know it doesn’t matter
And that it will be ok

Reach down into your heart
And ask yourself
Are they among the galleries of perfect spring days
When you think of your heroes
Do they ever have ties on
Are they giving interviews from some mason built irony about how they disagree
Are they drunk and mean at some party taking hipstomatic pictures of absently lit cigarettes
They should be teaching
They should be inspiring action or solving problems
They should be making children laugh

The view is disappointing
We have to turn the other cheek

If I could hold you while you cry it all away
I’d be there with soft arms and radical empathy
But there are too many of you
No matter how much there is of me

Anyway
If you believe like I do
I am always holding you
Just as the turtles are holding me

You should know
I don’t have heroes anymore
I do not have gods or overlords
I have love
And a menagerie of talismans
That I say are fraught with power
But are really only reminders of love

Reach down into your heart
Massage it back to life
Brush away the plaque
Jericho the barricades
Quiet down the cannonades
And listen

That is not crying
That is not something you saw on the internet or cable tv
That is not the song they want you to sing
That is the song of yourself
The voodoo that you do
It has been lost in the din
It has been succubus sucked
It has been so brave in the dark
Yelling out the chorus with equal passion time and time again
Dig that nasty base line
Let it resonate
You are a beast, a singular creation of power and portence

If no one else has said it today
I am amazed
You are amazing
Believe what they say
Or believe what empowers you
It is all made up
Only you make it true
Just do what you do
You do you

Reach down into your heart
Reach past the way it is
Beyond the broken dreams
The embarrassments
The learned lie of failure
The struggle for perfection
Manifested as popularity

Reach down and want the things you want
Define your own dreams
Paper is not people
The journey to a piece of gum is little more than the anticipation of aspartame
But the journey to flight . . .
The Tao of freedom . . .
The path to a durable happiness . . .
To love my family
To say what is inside of me
These are precious things

Reach down
Because you know it isn’t as close to the surface as it should be
Reach down
And resolve to feel more
Reach down
And fail spectacularly
Reach down into your heart
And love defenselessly
Be afraid, but do it anyway
Reach down into your heart and be




Monday, February 28, 2011

Mild fever - mild ear infection

I am searching for my voice
Even as it escapes my throat like barbed wire
And dreams

I am interpreting the blueprint
Conceived in a child’s smile
My pantheon unfolding
The revolution rescheduled

I am not going to write another word about how I am broken
I am ignoring a desire to pen poor prose in place of truth
The ducks are fine (I’m not sure about the beavers)
Thanks for asking
The sun is rising earlier
I am sleeping less . . .

I am trying to discern the pattern inherent in the chaos
Like remembering the echo of a flicker on the screen
Repetition is the first step to defeating natural freedom
The next step is incandescence
Then oh how the dominoes flow
It requires your belief
You have to ignore the rhythms calling to you from inside
You have to wear shoes if you want to go outside
Do not step on the grass
I see the anarchy of the morning dew, daily
I spout subconscious talking points with equal regularity

No I did not see the Oscars
If the revolution was televised I missed it
I turned off the cable
I know how it all ends anyway
I am the worst dressed
I dropped the f-bomb

I’ve been sleeping on a single bed beneath a coughing child
I have been applauding the bravery of persisting through pain
I have been negotiating the peace accord of dinner time
2 more bites of chicken
2 more pieces of broccoli
Drink all of your juice
Then you can get down
Crying gets you nothing from me
Except for hugs and sympathy

The idea that I am settling is the thing I set on fire in protest

As it has always been, today is the best day of my life
I am a forgetful bastard
I know
I know

The dishes have become a sculpture
The dishes have become the mashed potato mountain from Close Encounters
They cannot be done
It means something now
They must be worshipped
They must be pondered
I sacrifice this inexpensive pizza to you dishes
I kneel to your girth
You are a wanton thing
You are a benevolent, forgiving god

The bourbon is placed in the middle of the kitchen
A welcome waypoint between the altar in the sink
And the unfolded monument that extends like a mountain range
Like a dragons back
Like a poor man’s pyramid
From the washer and dryer
Hail to you oh god of sleeplessness
Praise to you sweet lord of getting through
I have lost all patience
It is my song to you

I worship at the foot of the xbox
Inside I am a champion
I am a warrior
My sword is augmented with purity and experience
My halfback is unstoppable

He sits on my lap and says maybe we can find some treasure
Or kill some monsters or something
Maybe we can play the crashing game
Maybe
Maybe

He is reconnecting me
Even though his cold has ruined date night
Even though her cold has pushed us beyond arm’s length
We circle the wagons
We aid each other
And we become a heap of tissue, and blankies, and peace
All of my new dreams will be of other people’s happiness
Phase one of project blue beam
I will make a joyful noise
I will initiate the unconditional love protocol
I will project something worth believing

Let the dishes linger
Leave the clean clothes to wrinkle and pile
I have almost gleaned their meaning
I’ve been loving you so long

I will want to sleep tonight
It will be my intention
But you will sleep
And I will linger
In a quiet world
Interrupted by the echoes of you two
Coughing upstairs
I will love you best
In the darkness
With my pure hope
I will pray
That you persist
That you get better
That you don’t leave me alone
That you keep loving me
There are so many of these moments
That you will never know
Moments of gathering strength
Moments of tenuous joy
Moments of thankfulness and scars
Moments when I think I hear it
My voice scattered like stars and good intentions
I am searching for an unnamable feeling
I am trying to define a wordless something or other
I am seeking you oh god of guts

I am up
Too late
Again
Recounting my blessing
Pointing a finger at each subtle failure
Forming a mythology fraught with beauty and lies

Somewhere
Amongst the stream of possibilities
Is the perfect me . . .

I am beginning to think
This struggling soul
Is the best that I can be . . .

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

San Tropez

I've been listening to Roger Waters and Pink Floyd again. Man . . . that music has a pass card to my secret lair. It just walks right in and starts mucking up the place. Self programmed through repetition. I am and have been more a fan of Floyd than the Beatles, or Led Zeppelin, or the Doors. I have been a consumer of the others, but never in the same way. I have tried several times to leave Pink Floyd behind, but they are a soundtrack of my self and however much hip-hop or alt pop, or bad rock I listen to, they remain a watermark of my musical taste.

Incidentally, my mom says that Dark Side of the Moon was her favorite album while she was pregnant for me. She listened to it constantly during those nine months. At some point when I was young . . . I want to say I was seven . . . we were driving down the street and a song came on. I started singing along, knowing the lyrics without really knowing what it was. I asked her and she freaked out a bit. It was Time. The idea that music could imprint and follow me from the womb fascinated both of us.

Sometimes it is astonishing to think that in some way my melancholy matched up with the sad introspection of post war English youth. In my mind, their reaction to their parent’s fears, to an evolving national identity, to the sadness of learning the truth, and to our ravenous and evolving global economy could not have been given a better life than through experimental music and the fact that this music made them any money at all is a tribute to their unflinching lyrics and musical virtuosity.

Hard truth is my favorite kind. I like beauty and love too, but I have always felt that the last thousand years or so have been a series of mistakes and the lies we tell ourselves so that we can keep moving forward despite the obvious insanity of each step. We are so out of balance now that the new fantasy, as expressed so vividly in Reagan’s 1987 address to the UN, is that some diabolical outside force appears to force unity and change.  (Let me just say, that I see a lot of amazing has happened too, not the least of which is me and Pink Floyd. : )

The amazing thing about this odd dream is how powerless it is . . . even at the supposed zenith of control we can do nothing but plod forward toward our own demise and wish it was different. Personally I believe we are better than that, but I see how anyone could let themselves become overwhelmed by our time. I’m sure if I knew what a president knows my mind would be changed, at least a bit.

There was a time I wanted to save the world, like Superman. And I guess I still do, but I think my tactics have evolved. To me our only hope is to look at ourselves, see the hard truth, admit who we are and what we have done, make amends, and then change. I don’t think we will. I just think it’s our only hope. I have gone from advocating wholesale global change to a faith in or hope for entanglement and its ability to spark a fire that leads to something big.

So, I spread happiness one person at a time. I hold doors open. I smile. I trust in my belief that I am connected to every atom and quark, every higs particle and each undulation of time, every desire and every star system. My ripples mean something. The way I live has an effect and one day my joy will contribute to an inevitable shift. I am empowered. I don’t try to control you. I just do what I can do. I have bad days . . .

On bad days sometimes I find my way back to Time, or Wish you Were Here, or Us and Them. I remember that I’m not alone, that it is sane to feel sad, that relentless hope is a worthy religion, that words have power . . . When the melancholy threatens to overtake me I stop and I listen to this or this or this or maybe this - and then I find my smile and walk, whistling into the twilight.

Get out of my secret lair Pink . . . and clean up before you go.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

SOS - three

I have not learned to play guitar yet – I still imagine skateboarding along and through the many obstacles of the city when I am not driving – I keep a heard of butterflies whose only job is to flap until there is more necking in this world – I also keep several kinds of bugs with allergies – their job is to achoo randomly – I like surprises - I look up words to make sure they are what I mean – I have come to enjoy the diversity of flatulence – I imagine that you’re laughing

There is a magic to America – sandwiched between country music stations and mountain ranges – the loneliest highway is wonderful if you can bring a friend – I-35 a long lick between our collective cleavage from concrete jungles to redwood forests I have leaned my head back in stunned gazes – I have memorized voices, gleaned their meaning, and lost the words like leaves down river – everywhere I went I loved them – the hopeful, the angry, the crafters trying and trying again – you can still find them, open, opening and curious

I saw the people on the streets today - the wind adding its own cold sense of urgency - it whispered run or you will die outside - I tell you friends the wind has never lied to me

I Texas not Texan - I Texas State not UT - admirer of longhorns, who sometimes sweats burnt orange - fan of old cowboys and tigers - sparky and too tall - conceived in Grand Rapids - heart broken in Lansing - my families could be family if not for the similarity - I left the cold for a reason - and now the season has me